confirm file replace

okay, so i wanted to change my "confirm file replace" box, i get a lot of new music, all the time. so rather then seeing what new music i got and then add it individually, i just highlight all my songs and just drag into my mp3. but it takes FOREVER to click NO in order to replace the songs

basically it looks like this:


but i want it to look like this:


i only get the one i want when im putting a song from my mp3 TO my computer, but not when i go from my computer to my mp3, anyway i can switch it so it looks like the second 1 for both?

i guess theres no way to change it then? that sucks